30 Something

So, I've been dating this new guy. He's cute and funny. He has two children (I think) and maybe one on the way. So, as we've been getting to know each other he's starting to remind me of a guy that I dated awhile ago. I have to post my yahoo 360 blog here to make a reference to the guys that I've date. Well anyway, we've hung out for two weeks now and we decided to "get together" a couple of days ago. He is absolutely horrible in bed. I don't know what to do. He's really small and he doesn't know how to "read" me. I'm the type of girl that likes to take some time and enjoy what's going on, so I won't "get there" for a while. Well, he conks out before I can even get close. But I do have to give it to him, at least he continues to try to get me there buy other means, but I've tried to leave my toys out to give him a hint. We can use those and they are a tried and true means of "getting me there". But, apparently he doesn't get the hint. It was practically in the bed with us and he never touched it. I need a guy whose not afraid of my toys. If he would have used his mouth for something other than talking I wouldn't have been so disappointed. I do like the fact that he talks to his children. He came in yesterday with his son and his daughter and was talking to his son about the streets and how he needs to avoid the gangs and do positive things. That made me proud. I don't ever remember my ex talking to his son about anything other than yelling at him. So that was a positive thing, however, I'm not sure how long I can put up with him. Another thing that turns me off is the fact that he smokes. Okay, I don't have anything against smokers, but a mint is in order if we are going to kiss. That was a big problem with my ex. I can't stand kissing an asstray.

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