New Friendships--Not always good
Sigma man contacted me on Wednesday to let me know that he was gonna come hang out with me on Friday. I was under the impression that he was driving in to town from Chi, but he was in fact, coming from Springfield. He asked me what we were going to do and I told him we could eat, go to the movies, those types of things and he was so blase that I just left it at that. I asked and asked what time he was going to be in town and wouldn't tell me. So he asked me what time did I want him to show up. I told him before 8--that would give me plenty of time to get home, change, look cute, etc. So I get a call from Lady in Charge and she's asking me if I am going to attend a meeting at 6:30. Huh? What meeting. I'm usually good about putting things on my calendar, but I missed that one, so I told her that I would be there. It was 6:17pm when she called. So I rushed to be at the meeting on time with make up, nail polish anc half my hair done. I told her that I would prolly need to be excused early and she understood. At 7:30 Sigma man calls and says he's outside of Decatur and he didn't know where he was. Well, he tried to explain to me that he was on 36E and I couldn't figure out for the life of me how he got to 36E coming from Chicago. So he made it to my place and the night commenced....
It was too late to see a movie so we decided on IHOP and then maybe a late movie. We had a good time chitting at IHOP. We had time to make it to the 9:45 movie, but he declined, "are u gonna let me stay the night?" was what he asked because the movie would let out after midnight and he had a 40 mile drive back to Springfield. "Uh, no" was my response. So we skipped the movie and had drinks at Starship. We had a good time at Starship and he asked me if I karoeked. I told him I didn't, but I knew a place that was nice. So off to Jabroni's it was. He told me that he would karoeke unless I did, so I agreed to sing Humpty Dance with him. WHAT? ME KAROEKE!? NEVER! Beside the time when me and few friends decided to sing "Stop in the name of love" and no one knew the words, I've never karoeked. But I did with him and it was a blast. We did the dance and everything. So after cozing up a little bit and dancing on the dance floor with the two grannies, we decided to sing again. Double Dutch Bus. I didn't know the words and the bar only had the appreviated version so that didn't go to well, but he was really good at performing for the crowd. After snuggling on the couch we decided that we had to redeem ourselves by going out with Celebration. It was a blast.
On the way home I didn't want the night to end. I was hoping that he didn't notice that as I was singing the lyrics, "we gonna have a good time tonight..." I was looking at him the whole time wondering if he got my hint, but he didn't. At any rate, I was really good and when he dropped me off at home, I kind of held on too long and invited him to stay the night with the caveat that he had to keep his hands to himself. Of course he declined, "You expect me to keep my hands to myself after we've been touching and rubbing all up on each other all night?' was his questions. "Absolutely" was my firm answer. He couldn't do it. So he decided to get on the road to go back home. I felt embarrassed for asking him to stay but I wasn't doing it so taht we could sleep together, I was doing it because I wanted to be close to somebody and also it was well after midnight and the reason he didn't want to see a late show was because he didn't want to get home too late. *Sigh*
After he let me know he made it home, I called Mr. B. What did I do that for? I have no sound reason why, but I did and he was gonna come over, but thankfully he had family issues to take care of--the second bullet I dodged.
So after my very very enjoyable night with Sigma man, I'm thinking that maybe this friendship is not a good thing. First I said I wasn't going to drink anymore and I found myself not only drinking a Blue Motherfucker, but asking for one--He's a Sigma so we had to order something blue. But I've also been trying to stick with this celibacy before marriage thing and that way he was touching me, I'm not sure if I would have been able to stick to my own rule of hands to myself. I don't trust my body at all.
So do I continue the relationship?
It was too late to see a movie so we decided on IHOP and then maybe a late movie. We had a good time chitting at IHOP. We had time to make it to the 9:45 movie, but he declined, "are u gonna let me stay the night?" was what he asked because the movie would let out after midnight and he had a 40 mile drive back to Springfield. "Uh, no" was my response. So we skipped the movie and had drinks at Starship. We had a good time at Starship and he asked me if I karoeked. I told him I didn't, but I knew a place that was nice. So off to Jabroni's it was. He told me that he would karoeke unless I did, so I agreed to sing Humpty Dance with him. WHAT? ME KAROEKE!? NEVER! Beside the time when me and few friends decided to sing "Stop in the name of love" and no one knew the words, I've never karoeked. But I did with him and it was a blast. We did the dance and everything. So after cozing up a little bit and dancing on the dance floor with the two grannies, we decided to sing again. Double Dutch Bus. I didn't know the words and the bar only had the appreviated version so that didn't go to well, but he was really good at performing for the crowd. After snuggling on the couch we decided that we had to redeem ourselves by going out with Celebration. It was a blast.
On the way home I didn't want the night to end. I was hoping that he didn't notice that as I was singing the lyrics, "we gonna have a good time tonight..." I was looking at him the whole time wondering if he got my hint, but he didn't. At any rate, I was really good and when he dropped me off at home, I kind of held on too long and invited him to stay the night with the caveat that he had to keep his hands to himself. Of course he declined, "You expect me to keep my hands to myself after we've been touching and rubbing all up on each other all night?' was his questions. "Absolutely" was my firm answer. He couldn't do it. So he decided to get on the road to go back home. I felt embarrassed for asking him to stay but I wasn't doing it so taht we could sleep together, I was doing it because I wanted to be close to somebody and also it was well after midnight and the reason he didn't want to see a late show was because he didn't want to get home too late. *Sigh*
After he let me know he made it home, I called Mr. B. What did I do that for? I have no sound reason why, but I did and he was gonna come over, but thankfully he had family issues to take care of--the second bullet I dodged.
So after my very very enjoyable night with Sigma man, I'm thinking that maybe this friendship is not a good thing. First I said I wasn't going to drink anymore and I found myself not only drinking a Blue Motherfucker, but asking for one--He's a Sigma so we had to order something blue. But I've also been trying to stick with this celibacy before marriage thing and that way he was touching me, I'm not sure if I would have been able to stick to my own rule of hands to myself. I don't trust my body at all.
So do I continue the relationship?
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