New Friend or Old Enemy
Wednesday, November 30, 2011
I have left the past in the past.
So what do I do when someone from the past shows up?
That was my dilemna when I ran into Coach on Saturday. He's singing the same song, but different tune, "I want to be more than friends......"
I simply told him that I wanted to be friends and that I wasn't sure if I wanted anything more. One issue that we are having is that he doesn't like my church. That's a BIG PROBLEM because not only has Christ become a big part of my life, but MY CHURCH has become a big part of my life. There are some times when I spent more time at my church than at home (depending on what's going on). He asked me if I could leave my church to come to his. I told him I wouldn't and I mean that emphatically!!
He also asked me if he could hug me. I told him, "NO," emphatically!!! Hugging him got me into trouble last year and I'm not going down that road again.
He's such a sweet man and he has a big heart. I just don't believe he's the one for me. Maybe if he changed, he's be right, but that's not my goal--to change a man. I've been digging around and I think I found out that he has 6 children instead of the 4 that he was telling me about. Well, actually he knew he had other children, it just wasn't confirmed through genetic testing until recently. According to court documents he stated that he has 10 children. WOW!!! That's a lot of children to take care of. He makes decent money, but still. He needs to make well over 6 figures to take care of them all.
Anyway, I'm not sure if he's the one. God will have to tell me!!!
So what do I do when someone from the past shows up?
That was my dilemna when I ran into Coach on Saturday. He's singing the same song, but different tune, "I want to be more than friends......"
I simply told him that I wanted to be friends and that I wasn't sure if I wanted anything more. One issue that we are having is that he doesn't like my church. That's a BIG PROBLEM because not only has Christ become a big part of my life, but MY CHURCH has become a big part of my life. There are some times when I spent more time at my church than at home (depending on what's going on). He asked me if I could leave my church to come to his. I told him I wouldn't and I mean that emphatically!!
He also asked me if he could hug me. I told him, "NO," emphatically!!! Hugging him got me into trouble last year and I'm not going down that road again.
He's such a sweet man and he has a big heart. I just don't believe he's the one for me. Maybe if he changed, he's be right, but that's not my goal--to change a man. I've been digging around and I think I found out that he has 6 children instead of the 4 that he was telling me about. Well, actually he knew he had other children, it just wasn't confirmed through genetic testing until recently. According to court documents he stated that he has 10 children. WOW!!! That's a lot of children to take care of. He makes decent money, but still. He needs to make well over 6 figures to take care of them all.
Anyway, I'm not sure if he's the one. God will have to tell me!!!
