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I went home on Tues to take care of my ex parte notice and luckily I was out of court in less than 20 min. I was so nervous, but the judge dropped the case. So afterwards I took my little sis prom dress shopping. However, I didn't know that my mother had not really approved of her going. So I spent about $150 on her dress, shoes, accessories to come home to my mom saying that she may not be going. My mother questioned why I would spend money on her going to the prom when she was expelled from school. I wanted to question why my mom hadn't investigated herself why my sister was expelled from school or why my mom don't talk to my sis about her attitude and how it is affecting her or why my mom didn't talk to the ppl at the high school to see if she could stay in school or why my mom has been dragging her feet when it comes to getting my sis into a program so that she could continue her education and sit around the house doing nothing or why my mom couldn't help her get a job until she got accepted into a program that would help her. I wanted to ask my bros. why they were suddenly upset over the fact that I'm paying for her to go to the prom and why weren't they trying to help her out in school. I truly believe that in my sis case expulsion was not the answer. I believe that so much could have been done to keep from being expelled. So where were and what where they doing to help her before she got expelled. All of a sudden she's going to the prom and everyone wants to harp about what she did. So what, everyone makes mistakes and everyone knows that my sis has an attitude problem, but there is a reason for that attitude problem. Why not deal with that instead of putting her down and telling her that she's not good because she got kicked out of school. Why not build her up instead of tearing her down to make her cry. So yeah, I bought her prom dress because now becuase she's kicked out of school she's not going to have a prom and she's sorry that she's been kicked out and she's trying to do what she can to get into job corp, but my mother is the person who has to get her birth certificate. Why is my mother not getting her birth certificate? Who knows. My mother could care less what my sis does. I love my mother, but she has some issues that I don't understand. Maybe it's because I'm not a parent, but I believe in talking to your children and helping them with life. I don't believe in children growing up and learning things on their own. I got my sis prom stuff because I understand where she is. Of course I didnt' have the attitude problem that she has, but I needed someone to believe in me and my sister doesn't have that at all and I want her to know that life is about mess ups and screw ups, but u make the best out of it

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