30 Something

I'm not a myspace addict as some of my friends are, but I do peruse every now and then. To my friends dismay I haven't created any funky cool backgrounds or anything. I guess the real reason is that everytime I try to manipulate it it comes up wrong and I don't have that much energy and time to spend in figuring out what I'm doing wrong. I'm mostly only on there when my few friends leave me a random comment about why I don't participate like they do. Recently I was talking to Mister and he said he had a page. I was quite surprised. He usually doesn't participate in stuff like that, but he was on there with the absolute worst picture ever on his profile. Anyway, a couple of my friends have been telling me how they've been getting in trouble because of lewd or suggestive comments. One of my friends even said that she was going to take her page down because it was causing problems with her relationships. So I looked at Mister's page and surely one of his friends was the out of town chick that he sees every blue moon. Her myspace name is Smoke's gal. I was shocked when I saw that because Mister's yahoo name is darksmoke, so of course it was a reference to her being his girl. However, he's always advertising that he's single. She would leave him comments "I wonder if I will see you before u see this comment," "I miss you and can't wait to see you, " etc. Well, his new notch is a young girl that's on myspace also. She would leave messages that were just as suggestive. I logged on yesterday to see what he was up to, who his new friends were. I noticed that all his comments were gone. I laughed. It seems that someone has gotten into a little bit of a tiff on myspace. Smoke's gal told him that she couldn't do myspace with him because of all his other women. That got me to thinking about a comment that a guy that I met awhile ago told me. He asked me who I was seeing. I told him that I was single, but I had a guy that I hung out with every now and then. At that time Al and I were kicking it. The guy asked me who was getting the short end of the stick in that relationship. I asked him what he meant. Basically he was saying that I was giving it up to Al and I wasn't getting anything in return. Al had the upperhand because he was getting what he wanted. At the time I disagreed. I told him that Al and I had the conversation up front that he wasn't looking for a serious relationship because of his recent divorce. I told him that I made the decision to sleep with him knowing that it wasn't going anywhere. Even though I wasn't only interested in a serious I knew what what up. So in essence I was just looking for someone to hang out with and someone have a good time with when I needed to. However, it didn't last long which disappointed me, but I let it go. After seeing smoke's gal comments I realized that she's emotionally attached to him and even though he's told her numerous times that it's just sex. She couldn't handle seeing him mingle with other women. So who's getting the short end of the stick in that relationship?

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