30 Something

Okay, so I didn't get a chance to talk to Mr. Naperville this weekend. I found that a little odd (first red flag). Actually that was the second red flag because the first one was when I tried to call him one evening and he didn't answer the phone. I chalked it up to being nothing. Yea right. So on Monday I mentioned it and he said that he was really busy. Yesterday instead of get online I decided to do some work. Yes, I do actually have a job. So I didn't log on until noon. He was online and we began to chat. He told me that he was talking to his friend last night and his friend had an issue. Okay..... So I asked what the issue was. His friend had been seeing a girl for almost 3 mos. and the girl just told him yesterday that she is married. So he asked my opinion on what the friend should do. I told him that even though this friend really likes this girl, the relationship won't go anywhere until she get's a divorce and I reminded him that I"ve been in that situation before and it didn't turn out pleasant. So he then proceeds to ask me what I would do if i was in the situation. Third red flag... I told him that I would bow out the relationship. The I asked him, if he was trying to tell me that he was married. Pause, pause, pause. Then he responded, "don't be mad, but yes." Pause, pause, pause....

He's been calling me and iming me ever since pleading me to continue to be his friend. I told him that I wasn't interested at all. He then said that he wants to see me on Friday for breakfast or lunch. Whatever.

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