30 Something

A friend of mine called me on Monday to ask me if she could confide something to me that she hasn't talked to anyone else about. I suspected that it had something to do with her marriage becuase for the past couple of weeks she hasn't worn her wedding ring. She told me that she would talk to me when she got to work. So when she got here, we only had about 10 min. to talk. She basically said that she and her husband was thinking about separating or divorcing. Of course i was frantic and asked why and she began to tell me that she hated having sex and that her husband was never at home. Okay, okay..... I was a little baffled because of course I'm not married and have never been married, but I think that those are things that can be fixed. Well, the hating sex part may require licensed professional help, but the husband never being home part is fixable. Right? When they got married he worked two jobs. A 9-5 and a weekend job that required him to work all weekend. He basically works so that she and his son can have "nice things." He's seems to me to be materialistic like that. He wants his wife and child to have the best. She doesn't even have to work if she doesn't want to. But then I told her that maybe they needed to take a vacation or something. She explained to me that he goes on vacation with is parents and his ex-wife's parents. WTF?????? Okay, that got me there. So I'm not sure what is really going on....

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