My Dating History Part Two
July 2002: I was determined to not let my time with my lying, uneducated man in vain. I made it up in my mind that I was going to get him divorced. I called to get the information on what he needed to do and because they were only married for a little over a year and they didn't have any children, the process wasn't too tedious. However, he was shuffling his feet and making excuses. One day he came to visit me at work. As the day was coming to a close I walked him out to his car. As we were talking I he, all of a sudden, grabs me and hugs me. I was trying to peek out of the corner of my eye to see what he saw that made him do this. Surely, it was Mister, standing in the doorway staring us down. I played it off and sent my man on his way. A couple of weeks later I'm at home and I get a phone call. It was my man. He called me after his GED class, which I helped him get into.
Caller: Tay?
Me: Yes
Caller: You remember when we were outside in the parking lot a couple of weeks ago and I hugged you?
Me: No, why (I lied, I remembered exactly what he was talking about)
Caller: You remember, we were stading outside and I reached over and hugged you and there was this guy staring at us. Who was that guy?
Me: What are you talking about?
Caller: There's a guy that goes to school at Richland. His name is *&^*(. Is something going on between ya'll.
Me: What are you talking about?
He then goes on to explain to me that he along with his cousin was getting something to eat in the cafeteria and Mister came up behind him and asked him if we were together. He says yes and Mister chuckles and says, "Oh, really?" He reassures Miser that we were together and Mister continues to chuckle and he asks Mister what was so funny and Mister just tells him that he was giving him his props, that's all. So from that converstaion my man got suspicious and he was calling me to see if there was something going on between me and Mister. At that time I hadn't even talked to Mister. Our conversation included, "Hi" and "Bye", that's it. I barely even saw him. So the next day I asked Mister if he could come to my office. I questioned the conversation that he had with my man. He basically said that he was just asking if we were together because he was a better man than Pit. What? What did u call him, was my questions. Mister went on to tell me how they grew up together and how he hated my man's cousin. What? Why didn't he tell me this? As he was talking to me he kept saying how he was a better man than him. I then told him that my man was intimidated by him and that he thinks that something is going on between me and him. I also spilled my guts about him being married and not telling me. That was the only conversation that we had until February.
November 2002: I went on a business trip and shared a room with my boss. I called my man to tell him that I made it. He asks me if I met someone new. I tell him that I hadn't. He then begins to grill me about cheating on him. He ask me to tell him that I love him really loud to make sure that no other man is in the room with me. I'm disgusted, but I do it anyway. My boss was in the room with me. That was the last straw. I hadn't cheated at all, but he continued and continued to accuse me. I was done. I got back home and told him that I never wanted to see him againg. Over the next two months he called and came by my house unannounced. I wouldn't take his calls. He left me all kinds of crazy messages at work and at home. I had two roommates who listened to my messages. I told him that he was making a fool of himself. He finally left me alone until January when he called to tell me that he got a divorce. At that point I didn't even want to hear his name.
February 2003: I was single and not particularly happy about it, but I wanted a minute to breath. However, I was really horny. Mr. No education calls me out of the blue to tell me his sob story of losing his job and he needed my help. He said he was coming to see me at work to get help with a resume. When he showed up at my office I simply took him up front to see the career services department. He was a little pissed, but at that point I didn't want to have anything to do with him. I did so much to try to help him and I was done. As he left my office he walked past Mister who was walking into my office. I took advantage of that situation and asked Mister if he say his "friend". He told me that he had. I then told Mister that we weren't together anymore. Mister was intrigued and told me that he knew a guy who was interested in me. We were trying to whisper because of our nosey secretary. I asked Mister who and he told me that he was interested. I knew that, but I didn't want to assume. I told him that we would talk more when we had some privacy. I got pretty excited. I found him to be very attractive. I left him a note with my number to call me. I asked him what he was doing that evening because my brothers had a band recital at school that I needed a date for. He agreed to attend with me. After the recital we went to eat at Steak-N-Shake.
Caller: Tay?
Me: Yes
Caller: You remember when we were outside in the parking lot a couple of weeks ago and I hugged you?
Me: No, why (I lied, I remembered exactly what he was talking about)
Caller: You remember, we were stading outside and I reached over and hugged you and there was this guy staring at us. Who was that guy?
Me: What are you talking about?
Caller: There's a guy that goes to school at Richland. His name is *&^*(. Is something going on between ya'll.
Me: What are you talking about?
He then goes on to explain to me that he along with his cousin was getting something to eat in the cafeteria and Mister came up behind him and asked him if we were together. He says yes and Mister chuckles and says, "Oh, really?" He reassures Miser that we were together and Mister continues to chuckle and he asks Mister what was so funny and Mister just tells him that he was giving him his props, that's all. So from that converstaion my man got suspicious and he was calling me to see if there was something going on between me and Mister. At that time I hadn't even talked to Mister. Our conversation included, "Hi" and "Bye", that's it. I barely even saw him. So the next day I asked Mister if he could come to my office. I questioned the conversation that he had with my man. He basically said that he was just asking if we were together because he was a better man than Pit. What? What did u call him, was my questions. Mister went on to tell me how they grew up together and how he hated my man's cousin. What? Why didn't he tell me this? As he was talking to me he kept saying how he was a better man than him. I then told him that my man was intimidated by him and that he thinks that something is going on between me and him. I also spilled my guts about him being married and not telling me. That was the only conversation that we had until February.
November 2002: I went on a business trip and shared a room with my boss. I called my man to tell him that I made it. He asks me if I met someone new. I tell him that I hadn't. He then begins to grill me about cheating on him. He ask me to tell him that I love him really loud to make sure that no other man is in the room with me. I'm disgusted, but I do it anyway. My boss was in the room with me. That was the last straw. I hadn't cheated at all, but he continued and continued to accuse me. I was done. I got back home and told him that I never wanted to see him againg. Over the next two months he called and came by my house unannounced. I wouldn't take his calls. He left me all kinds of crazy messages at work and at home. I had two roommates who listened to my messages. I told him that he was making a fool of himself. He finally left me alone until January when he called to tell me that he got a divorce. At that point I didn't even want to hear his name.
February 2003: I was single and not particularly happy about it, but I wanted a minute to breath. However, I was really horny. Mr. No education calls me out of the blue to tell me his sob story of losing his job and he needed my help. He said he was coming to see me at work to get help with a resume. When he showed up at my office I simply took him up front to see the career services department. He was a little pissed, but at that point I didn't want to have anything to do with him. I did so much to try to help him and I was done. As he left my office he walked past Mister who was walking into my office. I took advantage of that situation and asked Mister if he say his "friend". He told me that he had. I then told Mister that we weren't together anymore. Mister was intrigued and told me that he knew a guy who was interested in me. We were trying to whisper because of our nosey secretary. I asked Mister who and he told me that he was interested. I knew that, but I didn't want to assume. I told him that we would talk more when we had some privacy. I got pretty excited. I found him to be very attractive. I left him a note with my number to call me. I asked him what he was doing that evening because my brothers had a band recital at school that I needed a date for. He agreed to attend with me. After the recital we went to eat at Steak-N-Shake.
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