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What kind of bf is he?

Whiteboy told me that he wouldn't date me if I was dating other pple. I was cool with that and agreed not to, even though I've had a booty call or two. Oh and I took a friend out for a b-day drink on Tues night, but it wasn't a date considering he's married. However, he has not called me since Sunday. It's now Thursday and our only converstion has been text messages. I text him on Sunday to ask what he was doing. He said mowing the lawn and doing laundry. I said okay and expected him to call me because we made plans to do brunch. He never called. Why didn't I call him? Because he was busy and I wanted him to call me when he was done. I text him on Mon to ask what he was doing and I didn't get a response until Tues when he text me back to say that he got home from work and went to bed at 6. I then text him yesterday to ask if he was talking to me or not because we haven't talked. He mentioned that he sent me a response on Tues as to what he was doing and he didn't get my response. So I'm a little confused. I haven't been in the early stages of a relationship in a while, but I'm sure the premise is to spend time together or at least talk to each other everyday. I'm not going to let it stress me out.

Magic Fingers and I have been spending time together. I don't consider it dating because it's just a booty call, but every now and then he'd make a reference to a relationship. Last night I was so tired that after dinner I was in the bed around 8:30. I wasn't fully sleep, but I was dosing. The phone rang about 11:30. I wasn't going to answer, but when I saw that it was him I jumped up. Of course if he calls me that late I know what time it is. So I got to his house about midnight and we stayed up really really late. I really enjoy spending the time that we do together even though we mostly have sex. But I'm not going to kid myself. I know his motives. Thus, my confusion when he makes references to a future. I guess he's a dreamer like me. I'll keep dreaming with the hopes that our dreams will come true.
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At 9:58 AM, Blogger Shelly M. Burrows said...

Ok, I don't know you at all but from that post I feel he's just using you. You know the phrase "He's just not that into you". I know it sucks but, there is a guy out there that will appreciate you for you and what you have to offer. Best wishes. Oh, BTW I met my husband online. He lived in England and I in the USA. So there is hope. Just don't settle for anything less than you set for yourself. bugs-momma.blogspot.com    



At 10:54 AM, Blogger NotCarrie said...

That sucks, Hopefully his true intentions become crystal clear.


It would take a lot for me to give up sleep;)    



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